What to do?

This is from a book (What to Do When No One Has a Clue).

Is a guy who lets a woman pay her own way on a date a modern man... or just cheap?
"He's a cheap loser. No self-respecting man, poor or rich, will let a woman pay. It's emasculating. His biology says that he takes care of her. If he thinks he's going to let her pick up the tab, he better just cut off his penis because he's a sexual eunuch. Bring me a feminist and she's either married to a gay man or she's single." -- Patti Stranger, star of the Bravo TV series The Millionaire Matchmaker and author of become Your Own Matchmaker

"A guy who is financially withholding is going to be emotionally withholding as well." -- Jerilyn Kronen, PhD, a psychotherapist who counsels couples

Is it okay to blog about the person you are dating?
"Blogging about your date is the virtual equivalent of getting a tattoo with his or her name. It might seem like a great idea when you're happy and in the first blush of love. But even the most perfect relationship has moments of tension. In those less than happy times, the last thing you want to do is read about your partner on the Internet. Unlike a tattoo, things on the Web have a habit of staying there permanently." -- Blogger Cherie Burbach, the "Dating" feature writer of suite101.com (she met her husband online) and the author of Internet Dating Is Not Like Ordering a Pizza